"Walk with Me to Church: Being an Orthodox Christian in Jordan" by Xenia Makosky
In Amman, I live with an Eastern Orthodox Christian family who owns an apartment that is less than a half mile from the local Orthodox Church. I am also an Eastern Orthodox Christian, and at Amideast I do not have classes until noon on Sunday, so I am able to attend services regularly. While I was extremely lucky that my Arabic class starts at noon during the week, there is no guarantee that your schedule will be the same as mine. For example, some of my friends have classes at 9 a.m. on Sunday mornings. Even if you do have class on a Sunday morning, however, I encourage you to find a church and figure out if there are weekday or evening services you can attend. I also want to note that while Christians generally follow a less strict dress code than Muslims, you should still try to dress conservatively for church. Women can wear pants and blouses, but they should avoid short dresses and should cover their shoulders. If you are receiving Communion, then women need to put on one of the head coverings while approaching the chalice.
I bet this is not what most people expect to hear when I tell them I am studying abroad in the Middle East. If I am being completely honest, I was not expecting to be able to attend religious services with such ease while abroad either. Before I came to Jordan, I was fully prepared to only be able to attend church a few times during the semester, if at all. To my surprise, however, I found myself living with a family whose religious background is similar to my American family, and attending church is even easier in Amman than it is back home. (The closest Eastern Orthodox Church to my home in America is a 30-minute drive away!) While Christians and Muslims do not exist peacefully in all parts of the Middle East, here in Jordan they do and maintaining your Christian faith while studying abroad might not be as hard as you expect.
I am so thankful that I am able to attend religious services while studying abroad. While my religious identity is a major part of my life, I know that it is not the same for all students. I would encourage everyone studying abroad to visit any house of worship, whether that is a church or mosque, and attend a service with your host family or friends. Religious identity is a major aspect of Jordanian life, and it will only help you understand the culture better. And who knows, you might even enjoy it and learn something!
Xenia Makosky is a student from Dickinson College participating on Amideast’s Area and Arabic Language Studies program in Amman, Jordan in Fall 2022.